The Midlife Journal

Holiday Hustle Keeping You Up?

Dog on top of a present in front of a Christmas tree
Dog on top of a present in front of a Christmas tree
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    Dreamy Sleep Tips + Reasonable Gifts for Teens

    Don’t you wish you could like this as soon as your head hit the pillow? Sigh.
    Don’t you wish you could like this as soon as your head hit the pillow? Sigh.

    The days of elf-on-the-shelf, school holiday programs, Santa visits, and perfectly coordinated photo outfits are behind me (thankfully). But the hustle and bustle of this season hasn’t gone anywhere. 

    Whether you have young kiddos or are nearing empty nest status, if you’re in perimenopause (or beyond) sleep is a delicate balance. Hormonal shifts combined with holiday stress? Well that’s a recipe for some wide-awake-at-3-a.m. nights.

    Sleep is one of my favorite topics to write about because it’s foundational to everything: mood, skin health, energy, and overall well-being. Over the years, I’ve dialed in a routine that helps me get back on track when life—and hormones—disrupt my rest. 

    Here are the five resets that make the biggest difference for me—I’d love to know what sleep secrets help you get more rest!

    1. Start Strong in the Morning

    A great night’s sleep begins the moment you wake up. I make it a point to get outside and maybe even take a quick walk if I can when I wake up. Natural light exposure first thing helps regulate my circadian rhythm and ensures my body knows when it’s time to wind down later. I try to take a deep breath, focus on something beautiful, and set an intention for the day.

    2. Time Your Caffeine Wisely

    I’m a coffee and tea lover, but I hold off on my first cup until about an hour after waking. This allows my body to naturally clear adenosine, the chemical responsible for grogginess, which makes my caffeine more effective. I also cut out caffeine completely by 2 p.m. to avoid sabotaging my night.

    3. Create a Ritual, Not Just a Routine

    I try to keep evenings sacred, and I’ve built a routine that signals to my body that it’s time to unwind. A cup of chamomile tea, a warm shower, and a few minutes of gentle stretching or reading set the tone. Of course, things come up at work and sometimes I have to hop on my phone to answer an email — in that case I reach for my trusty blue light-blocking glasses. This article has tons of options at a variety of price points.

    Not my cat, but I do adore crisp cool percale sheets — even in winter. My favorites are from Brooklinen.
    Not my cat, but I do adore crisp cool percale sheets — even in winter. My favorites are from Brooklinen.

    4. Cool and Calm Your Space

    I sleep best in a room that’s cool, dark, and clutter-free. Blackout curtains, turning the AC down, and layers of light blankets help me stay cozy without overheating. A calm, uncluttered bedroom is also key. (Of course, I do have clutter, I just chuck those piles of laundry, gifts, papers, and Christmas cards into the living room or guest room.)

    5. Know When to Let Go

    Even with the best intentions, some nights just don’t go as planned. Instead of tossing and turning, I’ve learned to lean into the moment. A little journaling, some deep breathing, or a few pages of a book can often lull me back to sleep—or at least help me rest.

    So, what are you getting the teens in your life?

    One thing I’m not losing sleep over? Shopping for my kids. My kids are reasonable and thankfully specific about their asks, but teenagers are a notoriously opaque bunch. If you’re still stumped on what to get the high schooler or college-aged kid in your life, here’s what I’m getting my son and daughter this year. 

    For my son (16):

    For my daughter (18) who’s admittedly a bit more prolific:

    Cheers to looking and feeling your best,
    Susan Campbell
    Founder & CEO, Phosis

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    MyMMT™ Certified Menopause Lifestyle Practitioner & Founder of Phosis
    Susan entered perimenopause at 50 and watched the products she'd trusted for years stop working. She spent five years with cosmetic chemists building a barrier-first routine for skin in hormonal change. She writes the journal from lived experience.
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